I call myself the Facebook Queen. That is because I am on it way too much. I started out on Facebook because I wanted to keep track of my adult children. However , I quickly learned my adult children are smart enough to know it is not the best idea to post anything that can have any possible significance on Facebook. In other words, don’t let your dirty laundry out on Facebook. So, I wasn’t going to find much out about them by looking at their Facebook pages. I have to use an ancient device, the telephone, to communicate with them.
Positive side of Facebook
I ended up finding people I knew in elementary school, junior High, high school and college. Some of the people were never really my friends, more like people I said hello to in the hall. But I did find two of my high school closest friends that I lost track of. I even found my speech teacher. I even borrowed some of my kid’s friends who were happy to let me see their posts.
I’m in the Harmony Project, a huge volunteer choir, and can keep up with some of the members using Facebook. It’s a good way to keep up with what’s going on around town. I can remember people’s birthdays now because they are posted on my Facebook page.
I also can keep up with relatives I haven’t seen in years and see pictures of their children and grandchildren.
Some of the people I’ve found are people who I admire, and wouldn’t have a chance to talk to in real life. For example, author Alice Hoffman has a page and I was able to interview her online for an article I was writing for a local newspaper. That would have been unheard of years ago. In that sense, social media is a terrific thing.
Facebook is the place where I’ve found out that people are getting married, having birthdays, and passed away. It’s like the new town crier. Much faster than snail mail, a telephone, or the slower newspaper.
I also want people to read my blog since I think I am so brilliant. It’s another way of being heard. One of the places I advertise it is on Facebook.
Facebook has a negative side
In Ohio, employers can ask you for your Password, so they can check you out. Is this fair?
Colleen Marshall, my Facebook friend, was looking for someone to demonstrate that people can access your account if they have your password. She was looking for a guinea pig who would not only divulge her password, but allow her to look at everything she’s ever put on Facebook.
Other people were too smart to do this. On the other hand, I didn’t think there was anything on there that would embarrass me. I did get to meet her, something that probably wouldn’t have ever happened in real life.
See how I react when she shows me what she found. It will be on( WCMH Channel 4) tomorrow night February 19, at 6:00 P.M. Tune in.
It will bring you the message that you shouldn’t put on Facebook anything that you wouldn’t want anyone to know!
What do you think of Facebook? Do you think it’s a time waster or valuable? Would you give it up?